Guest Post: Heather's Hubby Rants...

Rant Alert!  When I come on Heather's blog - I normally write cute and funny witticism but today I need to rant...

Good Enough is for 'Losers'

I am sick of good enough.  Lately people around me have been giving half assed efforts and telling me it is 'good enough.'  Where is the pride?  Where is the drive to do things 'just a little better?'  Where is the need for growth and development?

We used to be a society where everyone worked hard to make life better for all.  Now we are just doing things good enough to make it comfortable for me.  We allow others to think for us and to give us our opinions because it is easier.  We have become a society of complacency! 

We have entered into an economy where success is dictated by the ability to think, innovate and move forward yet we allow our schools to become wastelands of groupthink.  We create so little as a result.  We are in a world in a desperate need for love and compassion yet we turn on each other as soon as our own interests may be compromised (see health care).  We have become day to day creatures of comfort rather that shapers of the future.  We are waiting to be lead instead of becoming leaders ourselves.

So my challenge to all of you (and to myself to continue to do so) is to do the mirror test for a month.  Each morning look in the mirror and ask yourself these questions;

Did I put my best effort into my work and life yesterday?

Did I do something positive for the world around me yesterday?

Did I become a better person yesterday?

Remember, the person in the glass never lies. It is hard because the answer is 'no' way too often. To makes these answers 'yes' it takes dedication and discipline.  It also takes empathy, truth and dignity.  Finally, it takes love of self and of those around you.  Not just the people you know but of all. It is a journey that has no end but the trip itself is its reward!

So for next month make it your mission to make the answer 'yes' to each of these questions and watch how the world around you improves because 'doing it better' is for winners!

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i love this rant! and I am a firm believer in our thoughts, actions and words effect the whole Universe. I really do wish people would wake up and start realizing that it is not all about them. Have you ever read the Celestine Prophecy? I think you wouldl ike it.
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yep, we've both read it! thanks for the suggestion
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I'm your newest follower from LBS. Congrats on being featured! How great that your husband is willing to do guest posts. I would if my husband would do that!
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He was actually really sweet when he offered to do the first one... he's not on a schedule like me - although he knows that he won't get posted Monday or Tuesday, he'll write and send me stuff when the mood strikes and its usually when he knows I need a break - cause he's like that :)
Great post and so true. I love that hubby is writing on your blog - think I might need to try and get my hubby to do the same! :)
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Hope you do- I think it adds a different perspective and he likes to pop up randomly :)
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What a wonderful idea to have your husband as a guest blogger. I think I may look into that. I agree with your Hub, our society has settle for good enough.

Also, congrats on being the featured blog on LBS!
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thanks! He loves to be agreed with ;)
thanks so much for the post! its a great reminder!
Yay on your day Heather!

It can wear you do to always do your best and it's ignored. Even though you should do things without expecting praise it really gets old when slacker are getting praise or raises or promotion, etc.
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yep, I have to agree with you there, but I'm a big fan of Karma and the world eventually evening out...
Hi I am one of your more recent followers, congratulations for being features in The Lady Blogger, I love this article, I feel like some people doesn't give their all to what they are doing, I always try to do the things as best I can in my profession, and I always try to improve myself in every aspect of my life, but I have seen people that they just go to work, just to get their paychecks, you are totally right, I am inlove of your blog.

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Hello! Found your cute blog on Lady Bloggers Society! Your blog is truly interesting, and I'm quite excited to read more! I'm of course following now!

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thanks! glad you found us - please let me know what you think of things... I'm kinda going through a little self imposed bloggy makeover to make the blog better and would love your feedback!
With "good enough," the car breaks down,
And one falls short of high renown.
My child, remember and be wise,
In "good enough", disaster lies.

With "good enough," the shirkers stop,
In every factory and shop;
With "good enough," the failures rest,
And lose the one who gives the best.

Who stops at "good enough" shall find,
Success has left them far behind.
For this is true of you and your stuff--
Only the best is "good enough."

Great hubby rant and great blog!!

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1. i love that your husband rants on your blog
2. i totally agree with him

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thanks for coming by ... my hubby loves people who totally agree with him ;)
Well said. I can relate to this, and came from the "old school" mentality that you did things right. It's nice to see that there are still others that hold onto these old school values.

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