AAM - #Autism in our house

Acting Balanced Autism Awareness MonthAutism is such a broad spectrum umbrella... my favorite quote is "When you meet one person with Autism, you meet one person with Autism" because it presents so differently - it's funny though - my husband was worried about the diagnosis but I was relieved because it opened up doors for services and programs that otherwise might have been closed... my son is in a pre-school program with several children with the diagnosis and each one presents different challenges and symptoms and each has different sensory needs... and social needs :)


Throughout the month, I will be posting my own story, which I know will be different from every other Autism story out there.  I will be highlighting some of the other stories, as well as offering posts from a variety of experts, as well as offering product and book reviews, giveaways and space for you to share your opinions.  


Anytime you see the Autism Awareness Month symbol you can click on it and go to the Autism Awareness month page which will archive all of the posts.




In our house, Autism is kinda like those gremlins from the Family Circus cartoons - Not Me, Ida Know - you know the ones that get blamed when something goes bump, gets spilled or just isn't right.  It's sometimes hard to separate the normal 4 year old things from the things that Liam can't control because of his diagnosis.   It doesn't rear its head every day, but when it comes into play, you definitely know its there.  


In our house. Autism takes some planning but doesn't change our family - We are still a never-stay-at-home family - and things are always changing at our house.  At school Liam sometimes struggles when change occurs, but since change always occurs at home, we rarely see this.


In our house, Autism is like a pesky mosquito, buzzing just out of reach- we often see marked progress in Liam's stimming behaviors or his ability to make eye contact, only to lose it again on bad days that can turn into weeks.


In our house, Autism is trial and error.  Liam has been on a gluten free diet for over a year and we saw some marked progress, but wonder if it was just him or the diet.  He doesn't seem to mind it though, so we continue with it.  We've also tried other supplements, but he tends to reject them, so we haven't pushed.  


In our house, Autism is a super power.  Autism is part of what makes Liam who he is, a singing, dancing, crazy man who loves to obsess over trucks and cars, cuddle with his stuffed animals and sometimes his mama, and make his belly button talk when you leave his shirt off...


In our house, Autism is a roller coaster - some days you're up, some days you're down and some days you just hang on for dear life and hope that the ride comes to a full and complete stop for a minute so you can catch your breath.


What is Autism like at your house?  



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Thanks so much for stopping by my Autism post and commenting! Autism in my house, as both my son and I are Aspies, is sometimes comical, sometimes frustrating, but ALWAYS embraced for bringing out the best of us!

It wasn't always like this though. The years of struggle for the correct diagnosis and understanding my son, were some of the hardest in my life! But worth every single tear shed and fight faught!
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librarypat · 730 weeks ago

When I was student teaching back in the late 1960s, autism wasn't something that was even on the radar. In the preschool class I was assigned, there was one little boy who needed help and understanding. He got the understanding, but there was no help available for him at that time. Today he would be diagnosed as autistic and both he and his family would get the help and guidance needed. It is sad to think of the problems I am certain this boy had once he entered the regular school system.
well said! My son with Autism is 8 :)

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Keenly Kristin · 729 weeks ago

Hi! I can totally relate...my ex-husband's stepson had autism. Recognized a lot of the behaviors you mentioned!

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Great post! My 8 year old son's best friend is Autistic. He is a great kid and I totally get what you mean when you say it's part of what makes him who he is.

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My friends twins are autistic. Some days are better than others but i find that the family support helped a lot.
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Your attitude is wonderful. I am sure that helps Liam as well!

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A very thought-provoking post for us who would like to learn more about autism. thank you.
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I am loving all of your autism awareness posts. I will admit to not knowing much about autism but I am learning a lot.

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chelesa sims · 705 weeks ago

thank you for this post. i have learned a lot from you. i will admit i never knew much about it only from statisitics .
Our thoughts and prayers are with Your Family and Liam. We thought my neice had Autism for years. Her mother took her to every specialist she could find! They finally would go so far with diagnosis, that is was not Autism, but a rare form of when I believe we have 36 Chromosones and she only has 35? In a weird coincidence, a few years before that I had an employee working for our company whose younger sister was diagnosed with the same affliction. I am not sure of the statistics, but I believe it was 1 in 10,000,000 or more have ever been diagnosed. To this day that diagnosis still stands. Blessing to Your Family!
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Thanks for posting on this!
My niece's step son is autistic...highly functioning. This was great to read. Thanks.
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chelesa sims · 675 weeks ago

thank you so much for sharing this post.
This is such a great post. I've known quite a few people with autism and they are definitely their own person! How's it going these days?
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Really well - Liam is in a great class at school and is flying through his current IEP goals and making huge strides! He's also reading and learning his basic math, so he's really keeping up with the kindergarten curriculum... we're so proud!

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