One of the topics that came up this week in one of my Facebook groups was about trust in a relationship... specifically having friends of the opposite sex... and when Wayne and I talked about the topic we also talked about how some people see visiting strip joints or looking at racy movies as cheating... and for me it all boils down to trust...
I know and trust that my husband is who he is, so if he wants to hang out with female friends, go to a strip joint (which he rarely does...) or borrow my kindle to read a spicy romance, I'm not going to spend my time worrying that he's straying... he's having lunch with a colleague or sitting in a strip joint nursing a $10 beer (which he'd be grumbling about) because our friend Stu wants him to...
I guess I find it strange that people would even bring up the topic... but I guess there is a need to discuss it because some people do things in relationships that erode trust... I hope that never happens to anyone I know...
Want to see what Wayne said about the topic? Click here
